A man has ignited widespread debate online after sharing what many have described as an unusually strict list of requirements for a woman he would consider marrying.
The X (formerly Twitter) user, identified as @iTejasJagtap, posted a detailed breakdown of what he called his non-negotiable standards for a future wife.
“Qualities I Want in a Wife” – Man Reveals His List
In the now-viral post, he stated that his ideal partner must be a virgin, naturally beautiful without makeup, 5’2” tall, weigh 45kg, and possess exceptional cooking skills across all cuisines.
He also specified that she must not hold feminist views and should be willing to care for his parents as though they were her own.
According to him, his future wife must always share her location, seek permission before going out, and completely erase any trace of her past relationships.
Domestic and Family Duties ‘Non-Negotiable’
The user further stressed that full responsibility for household chores and family care would fall on his wife, describing these expectations as non-negotiable.
The post has since triggered intense reactions, with many social media users debating whether his list reflects personal preference or unrealistic and controlling standards.
Social Media and Male Friendships Off-Limits
The man also stated that his ideal partner should avoid social media and not maintain friendships with men.
In his own words, he outlined his “non-negotiable” criteria:
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Virgin
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Naturally beautiful (no makeup ever)
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5’2” in height
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45kg in weight
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Skilled in cooking all cuisines
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Non-feminist
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Doesn’t use social media
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Has no male friends
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Asks permission before going anywhere
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Shares her live location 24/7
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Deletes all traces of her past
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Takes care of his parents as her own
Netizens React
The post quickly went viral, sparking a wide range of reactions. While some users applauded his strict standards, many others criticized the list as controlling, unrealistic, and overly restrictive.
