A Nigerian lady has set social media buzzing after sharing her opinion on how to spot an unserious man during the talking stage.
According to her, a man’s reaction when a woman says she hasn’t eaten says a lot about his intentions.
“If you want to know a talking stage that is not serious, it starts from food…” she said.
She explained that instead of just asking questions or showing concern, a “serious” man should understand the hint and take action.
“If I say I haven’t eaten… are you not supposed to ask for my account details?” she added.
Her statement quickly went viral, with many Nigerians sharing mixed reactions.
While some agreed that effort and care should be shown, others argued that expecting money at the talking stage is a red flag.
One user wrote, “So love now equals billing?” 😂
Another added, “Talking stage don turn ATM stage.”
As expected, the conversation has continued online, with people debating where to draw the line between genuine care and entitlement in modern relationships.
“As my talking-stage partner, you ask me if l’ve eaten and I say no; don’t you know you’re supposed to ask for my account details so I can buy food?”
– Lady says as she reveals how to spot a guy who isn’t serious during the talking stage. pic.twitter.com/pSDQHzWB0h
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) May 1, 2026
