A Nigerian woman has opened up about something that will hit home for many how her husband allegedly changed overnight after marriage. And her story is breaking hearts online. 😔
According to her, when they were dating, this man went above and beyond. He would kneel and cry just to apologize. There was even a time he traveled overnight by road to Enugu just to beg her. Overnight! Just to say sorry. 🚌💨
“I used to think my husband would always pamper me because, when we were dating, he would even kneel and cry to apologise,” she said. 😢
But now? Married life has brought a completely different man. Less effort. Less attention. Less of everything. She said the energy dropped so badly that she now questions whether the love was ever real or if he was just performing to win her. 🎭💔
“I thought I would always be the one making decisions in our marriage because he let me take the lead while dating. But now, that’s gone and it leads to arguments,” she added. 😤
Her story quickly sparked a familiar conversation online. One user wrote, “Na normal thing, once dem marry finish, effort go reduce.” Another added, “Some men only perform during dating stage.” 🗣️
So the big question remains — do people truly change after marriage, or do they just stop pretending? 👀
“I used to think my husband would always pamper me because, when we were dating, he would even kneel and cry to apologize. There was a time he traveled overnight by road to Enugu just to apologize to me. But now, after marriage, he’s not like that anymore.”
— Lady says. pic.twitter.com/aIPINzvJSF
— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) May 5, 2026
