“I Didn’t Know What to Say” — Uzor Arukwe Opens Up About His Silence Following Alexx Ekubo’s Death
Nollywood actor Uzor Arukwe has shared an emotional tribute to late actor Alexx Ekubo, opening up about why he remained silent in the days following the heartbreaking news of his colleague’s passing.
In a heartfelt message posted on social media, Arukwe revealed that many people had questioned why he had not publicly reacted to Alexx’s death. According to him, the loss was so devastating that he struggled to find the words to express his grief.
The actor described the experience as one of those painful moments that leaves you hoping the news is untrue.
Reflecting on their relationship, Arukwe recalled meeting Alexx on a movie set and remembered him as a warm, humble, and genuinely kind person.
He said hearing stories from people who knew Alexx even more closely further highlighted the positive impact the late actor had on those around him.
Arukwe noted that the countless tributes pouring in since Alexx’s passing serve as a reminder that beyond fame, success, and talent, people are ultimately remembered for their kindness, character, and the way they treated others.
Explaining his decision to stay away from social media discussions surrounding the loss, he said silence was simply part of his grieving process, stressing that not every expression of sorrow needs to be made public.
According to him, some farewells are carried in prayers, cherished memories, and quiet reflection rather than social media posts.
In his words:
“I’ve been quiet.
And I know some people wondered why I didn’t post, why I didn’t say anything, why there were no pictures, no captions, no public display of grief.
The truth is, I didn’t know what to say.
Some losses don’t meet you online first; they sit with you quietly. They make you shake your head and say, ‘Mba… not this person. Not Alex.’ You replay the memories and hope someone will call to say there has been a mistake.
I met Alex Ikenna Ekubo on Dabby Chimere’s set. From day one, he was warm, accommodating, and every bit the gentleman people have described him to be. No noise. No airs. Just a genuinely good man.
Listening to the stories from those who knew him better, I found myself humbled. It reminded me that at the end of it all, people won’t only remember our talent or our achievements. They will remember our kindness. They will remember how we treated people. They will remember our spirit.
So silence was my first response to the news of your death because grief comes with silence too. Not every goodbye needs a post. Some are carried in prayer. Some are carried in memories. Some are carried in the heart…”
Rest in peace, Alexx Ekubo.
