A pastor has thrown a bombshell online. He told men to end things with any girlfriend who depends on them for money. Not advice. A command. 🗣️
In a viral video, he listed the signs. If she depends on you for her hair. Her rent. Her phone. Her SIM card. Even her underwear. He said she is not adding value to your life.
“She don’t bring any gain, no profit to your life. If she’s not supporting you, break her heart. I give you certificate to break her heart.”
Yes. He said certificate. 💀
The internet has exploded. Some men are cheering. Many women are furious. Others are just confused.
One person wrote: “So a woman who trusts you should be dumped? That is wicked.”
Another said: “Love is not a business transaction. This pastor is lost.”
Someone else added: “He has a point. A relationship should be a partnership, not a one-sided feeding program.”
A different voice said: “Imagine a man of God giving men permission to break hearts. What kind of church is this?”
Now the debate is raging online. Is he speaking hard truth or spreading toxic advice?
What do you think — right or wrong?
“If your girlfriend does not support you in any way but always demands from you, break her heart immediately” — Nigerian pastor tells male church members pic.twitter.com/mLsskgnvXn
— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) May 15, 2026
