A lady has sparked discussions on social media after firmly stating that she would never remain in a relationship with a man who physically abuses her.
In a video making the rounds online, the woman emphasized that physical violence is a boundary she would never compromise on, insisting that any act of abuse would immediately bring the relationship to an end.
“In This Matter, I’ll Say Never”
Addressing the popular saying, “never say never,” the lady maintained that physical abuse is one situation where she is willing to make an exception.
According to her, no matter the circumstances, she would never tolerate being hit by a romantic partner.
Speaking in the video, she said:
“Why do you think that I’ll allow a man to hit me? They say never say never, but me, I’ll say never in this particular matter. You’ll never hit me, and if you hit me, we’re done.”
“There Are Other Things I Can Handle, But Not Violence”
The woman went on to explain that while relationships and marriages may face various challenges, physical abuse is a deal-breaker for her.
She stated:
“It’s better you call the police as a man in my life. It’s better to divorce me or bring a second wife, but you see hitting, it is the biggest red flag I can ever take from anybody.”
Her comments quickly attracted attention online, with many users praising her stance on setting clear boundaries in relationships.
Reflecting on Her Upbringing
The lady also attributed her position to the way she was raised, revealing that her parents rarely used physical punishment while she was growing up.
She added:
“Me wey my parents didn’t really beat me when I was a child, I can never take it by the grace of God.”
Social Media Reactions
The video has since generated widespread reactions, with social media users sharing differing opinions on marriage, domestic violence, and personal boundaries.
While many agreed that physical abuse should never be tolerated in a relationship, others used the opportunity to discuss the importance of mutual respect, conflict resolution, and healthy communication between partners.
The conversation continues to spark debate online, highlighting growing awareness around domestic violence and the need for individuals to establish clear boundaries in their relationships.
Watch the video below…
Even if I hit you first” you don’t have to retaliate,
— lady laments how she can’t marry men that beats their wives even if na she Dey at fault pic.twitter.com/fh6UcS3bp9
— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) June 22, 2026
