A woman has sparked widespread debate on social media after openly sharing a list of strict personal rules she follows when dealing with men she dates or interacts with romantically.
In a video that has been circulating online, the woman explained that she does not believe in financially or logistically supporting men in any way.
“I will not drive a man anywhere. If we’re going somewhere, he should come and pick me up. If I have to drive us there, then I’m just going somewhere by myself,” she said.
‘I don’t pay for men’ stance sparks reactions
The woman also made it clear that she does not spend money on men during dates or outings. According to her, the man should be responsible for covering all expenses.
“I don’t pay for dinner, movie tickets, or gifts. I will not buy anything for a man. If I’m paying for my dinner, then I’m eating it alone,” she said.
She added that whenever she goes out on a date, she expects the man to settle the bill, describing it as a personal standard she does not compromise on.
Rules on communication and access
Beyond financial matters, the woman also spoke about how she handles communication with men. She revealed that she does not easily give out her phone number or provide explanations when asked questions.
“I don’t give men my phone number. I don’t give men explanations. I don’t answer most of men’s questions,” she said.
According to her, men need to show persistence and genuine interest before she considers giving them attention.
“I require them to ask over and over again so I can see if they’re serious. Then I want to know why they want to know the answer,” she added.
Her comments have continued to attract mixed reactions online. While some social media users praised her for setting clear boundaries in relationships, others criticised her views, describing them as overly rigid and transactional.
Watch the video below…
This woman has a set of rules for ALL of the men in her life.
This includes not driving to meet a man and not paying for anything, ever. pic.twitter.com/qYvABVnZcV
— Dr. Jebra Faushay (@JebraFaushay) March 10, 2026
